"Self knowledge is the best and most important knowledge you will ever acquire"
Monday, December 25, 2017
THE IMPORTANTS OF SELF KNOWLEDGE.
Many of us are Under utilising ourselves mainly because we don't know who we are.
Below are eight important of Self Knowledge.
1. Self knowledge gives an insight into life path or life purpose.
2. It gives an idea of the extent of physical abilities.
3. It reveals weaknesses and limitations.
4. It stimulates self-confidence.
5. It gives an idea of relationship choices.
6. It helps in making nutritional choices.
7. Self knowledge reveals a person's strengths.
8. It gives an insight into psycho-spiritual abilities.
When you know all these aspects of your life, it will help you live a life of less stress and more success.
Study yourself more often and with time you will be at home with who you are and you will start to live life on your own terms.
Wednesday, December 20, 2017
YOUR DAILY MOTIVATION TO FACE YOUR EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL PAINS.
Your pain is your pain. Don't avoid it.
It will lead you to the point when you will no longer feel pain.
YOUR DAILY MOTIVATION TO ACHIEVE YOUR DAILY GOALS
The external world is chaotic and we live all our life in it forgetting that there is a beautiful world within us.
YOUR DAILY MOTIVATION TO PUT YOU IN THE RIGHT MOOD FOR THE DAY.
Every day try to do something to surprise yourself.
Until you do that, you are not exploiting the excess
abilities that exists in you.
YOUR DAILY MOTIVATION TO KEEP YOU ALIVE
Don't give up on your DREAM.
You have the wherewithal to reach your dream.
Look within YOURSELF and you will find it.
Friday, September 22, 2017
EXPOSING THE HIDDEN POWER IN YOU.
Exposing the hidden power in you
It baffles me that a lot of us don’t really know what we are made of. So many of us are bereft of the enormity of the treasure within us. And that’s why many of us are merely existing and not really living. Some one might say, “well, you don’t need to generalize what you think because for me; I know what I am made of” if you are such a person, then I congratulate you and that is if actually you know what you are capable of. I so much believe in human beings. I so much believe in the powerful nature of man. I see man as the best and the most powerful creature on earth. The abilities and greatness ingrained in every human being is an eloquent testament to the biblical saying that man is an image of God. Yes! You are. Whether you believe it or not. I don’t know if you know that as a human being you are capable of doing so many things; even the things you have not thought of. I know what I am saying. I am not trying to be arrogant here, but without your consent, I want to tell you that I know you more than you know yourself when it comes to the abilities in you. I want to describe you in one word; I will simply say that you are energy. And I know that from your knowledge of primary science you already know the characteristics of energy? Energy is a powerful force. It cannot be destroyed but is transformed from one form to another. Which in other words means that energy is indestructible.
Dear friend, you are energy. And are indestructible. Do me a favor here. Be bold enough to believe that you are indestructible because that’s who you are. I don’t mind saying this anywhere and at any time. I know some folks who may likely consider what I am saying as a sacrilege. If you are one of those who think so, I want you to spare yourself that heart ache. If acknowledging the power inherent in man is a sin, then let me be a sinner. If discovering the greatness in man and waking people up to its reality is a passport to hell fire, let me live in hell for eternity.
God attests to the abilities in you.
I am not preaching heresy. I am preaching gospel. Yes! This is gospel. Even God who created man in his own image can attest to this. He created man and he knows the enormity of power, intelligence and wisdom he has invested in man. And a very good point to buttress the fact that he Himself believe in the ability in man whom he created in his own image was what happened when men made up their mind to build the tower of Babel in the book of Gen 11:1-9. God observed what the men were doing. And He(God) said “That no one will be able to restrain man from doing whatever he has imagined to do”. I don’t think there is anyone on earth who knows more than God whom we all believe is the creator of heaven and earth. If He himself has said this about the ability in man, I don’t think it is right for any one to considered me egoistic for propagating this gospel of the wealth and abilities in humanity.
Man’s greatness was subtly and deliberately undermined
I am only reiterating what has been known for ages but was suddenly de emphasized in a bid to diminish man in his own eye and subject him to an unending mental slavery. I know the power inherent in man including you and I will not stop but continue to spread the message in order to inform the uninformed. If it entails standing alone; let it be so. I will stand alone but I will not allow the truth about who we are be slipped under the carpet for fear of what some people will say.
In the course of living life here on earth, I have had intercourse with human being from different spheres of life. Be it religious, academics, racial, professional, and ideological and so on and so forth. And my experience with these folks corroborated or corroborates what I have discovered about man on my own self-focused and intense research about who we are. I have had experiences that re-enforced my belief in man’s abilities. It was an experience I never knew I would go through and will still have my mind intact and be able to seat down and type this article. I was totally messed up physically, emotionally, psychologically and physiologically. I was in a lockdown mode. I still marvel within myself at the unfathomable power within me that was able to pull me through the whole horrible experience. I am able to tell the story today, not for any other reason but for the availability of inestimable cornucopia of wealth and abilities that each and every one us is imbued with.
You are already made with the ability to survive or reach your goals
It is usual to hear people who survived life threatening situation to say something like, “I did not know I can survive this situation” “ I never knew I will be able to make it through this hopeless situation”. Or it never occurred to me that I will be able to achieve this. May be at one point or the other in your life, you may have made such a statement yourself. Yes! it is possible that at one point or the other in your life after pulling through a deadly life circumstances or pulling off a jaw-breaking achievement you looked back and wonder how you were able to wade through the turbulent water.
The truth is that you were able to make it through the tough times because you have inside of you what it takes to make it through.
Each time we use expression such as “I don’t know I that can……, “I never know I will be able……, it never occurred to me……………, What it means is that fundamentally, we have these wealth of abilities in us to endure and survive any negative circumstances in our lives or reach most of our dreams in life in spite of how hopeless and horrible they may seem. It also connotes that each and every one of us has an inbuilt mechanism to survive these negativities we may encounter. Such expressions literally indicate that the ability to pass through difficulties and overcome them is inherent in us but we do not know that we have them in us.
Most of us know that most of our actions and inactions are engineered by decisions we make from our unconscious mind. So, when we make such expressions like; I never knew I can survive this………It also indicates that we were able to survive the harrowing experience from actions masterminded by our subconscious mind. It shows that we were able to go through it while in our autopilot mode. And if we can survive it from efforts made from our subconscious mind, then we can even survive much more or do much more when we take decisions and act from our active or conscious mind. It is clear that when we are in our active or conscious state, we are much more aware of our physical and internal environment which normally gives us much more ability to act consciously and be in control of what happens within and outside our being.
You have the power to determine how you feel.
Get this right; staying in control doesn’t necessarily mean that you will determine what happens to you. It doesn’t mean that what happens to you will always be easy to overcome. It doesn’t mean that what is happening to you will cease. The truth is that if it is not time for it to cease, it will not cease. And believe me! What is going to happen to you is going to happen to you no matter how much in control you are. But you know what? Being in control or working in your conscious mind gives you the ability to determine how you interpret what happens to you. That is one of the beauties of the powers you have in you as a person. You have the power to call the short on how you interpret every events or circumstances that may befall you; whether desirable or undesirable; whether expected or unexpected. You have the ability to choose how you construe it. And you know that your interpretation of it will largely determine how you will feel it. If you interpret it in a way that brings self pity and a defeatist thought, so it will manifest. But if you interpret it in a way that brings self confidence and boldness, so it becomes. Therefore, take the advantage of the your god given ability to always interpret your circumstances in ways that make you feel like the warrior and not the victim. Interpret it in ways that will make you feel like a winner and not a loser even when common sense strongly reminds you that it is the other way round.
You are capable of doing more than you know
The crux of the matter here is that “You are more powerful than you think”. I know you very well when it comes to the abilities you possess. I can confidently say that I can see the wealth you have inside of you which you have not seen by yourself. I can imagine what you are capable of doing but you don’t know it yet. You are not just the fear-ridden, weak, thoughtless and liverless person you were programmed to think you are. You are created with limitless abilities meant to help you leave a life of greatness for your own benefit and the benefit of the world you live in. I believe so much in your ability because I know you have it. So, I want you today to justify my confidence in your ability by setting big goals and creating big dreams that will stir or wake up the giant that lie idly with in you.
Monday, June 19, 2017
LITERARY CORNER
Welcome to The Wealth In You literary corner
In this part of thefoundationofsuccessthewealthinyoublogspot.com, our focus is on literature and other related materials. As at now, we have two published literary books.
They are:
1. Wisdom Pack- Wisdom pack is a children's story book that was carefully mastered to appeal to the mind of the kids. And stir up in them the hunger to live up to the positive virtues which is the underlying message that the book carries.
2. Poems For All Ages- Poems for all ages is a collection of poems mindfully crafted to fit the taste of all age groups including the kids, the adolescents and the adults. The poems have something for everyone who intentionally or unintentionally picks it up to read. POEMS FOR ALL AGES, just like the "WISDOM PACK" story book, is built to teach or remind many of the readers about moral virtues. I strongly believe that sound human values such as Morals, discipline, obedience, thoughtfulness, remorsefulness, motivation and etc are the ingredient that everyone of needs to succeed and live comfortably with others in this world.
2. Poems For All Ages- Poems for all ages is a collection of poems mindfully crafted to fit the taste of all age groups including the kids, the adolescents and the adults. The poems have something for everyone who intentionally or unintentionally picks it up to read. POEMS FOR ALL AGES, just like the "WISDOM PACK" story book, is built to teach or remind many of the readers about moral virtues. I strongly believe that sound human values such as Morals, discipline, obedience, thoughtfulness, remorsefulness, motivation and etc are the ingredient that everyone of needs to succeed and live comfortably with others in this world.
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Wisdom Pack (Stories for children) |
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POEMS FOR ALL AGES (Poems tactically created for the enjoyment of everyone) |
As you already know, this blog is all about 'conscientizing' and directing people's percepective on the abilities they have in themselves.
When I say people, I am talking about everyone of us. I have always tried to drum it it into our subconscious that each and everyone of us has abilities that transcend our understanding.
But the problem we have is that we live what I call an "accustomed" lifestyle. What I mean by that is; We live within the limit that we are used to. We unconsciously live in a comfortable state which feels threatened each time we want to go or do something outside it's 'normal'. And immediately our subconscious mind receives that signal of threat, it tricks the unprepared conscious mind which in turn retracts to its comfort zone. And this is one of the reasons why many of us remain largely under utilised.However, there is a way to force yourself out of the comfort less comfort zone and stubbornly remain outside of it. How to do this is to be awake. That is; slip out of the subconscious mind and remain in the conscious. Find something that will serve as a stimulant or a trigger which brings you to your conscious mind each time you tend to fall back to the subconscious state. The fact is that what you call a comfort zone today was created sometime ago and when it was nourished, it grew muscles and get established. So, as a result, it can also be dismantled by a conscious effort and another be created in its place. And through these cycle we will be able to discover the unused abilities that exist in us.
A typical example of what I am trying to point out here is my ability to have written the books posted above. I have not thought of it that one day I will write anything like that. To be honest with you, I don't know that I can write this kind of books. This is not to say that it is something that other persons cannot do. I am not try to give myself credit here, but I am trying to explain what I mean when I say that there is inside each and every one of us abilities that transcend our understanding.
Here is the bottomline; you may be doing well in your chosen career whatever it might be, but the truth is that what you are doing currently is not all that you are capable of doing in your life.God almighty has endowed you with inexhaustible wealth and abilities which you can utilise any time you stir them up.
As you are reading this article, I am convinced that beside your chosen career or primary source of livelihood, there is something else you can do to benefit yourself and the humanity which you are not doing due to one reason or the other. It may be that you can sing. It may be that you write. It may be that you can act. It may be that you can talk to and help someone who is going through challenges. It can be any other thing that I did not mention here. But the most important thing is that you know it yourself. And you know that you can do it. I am not talking about doing it perfectly. It is all about your passion or inclination. That is where it all begin. You may not be able to do it well yet but if you start, you will certainly get better at it.
The next question is; Why are you not doing it if you know you can do it? There are many reasons that you have in your mind which are cogent to you. But the main reason why you are not doing it is because you don't want to leave your comfort zone. You don't want to do something that will put your emotion on edge.
But I want to encourage you to break out of that comfort zone and start utilising the abilities or the wealth in you. If you know how to write, start writing, if your passion is in singing, start writing songs and sing them. If it is about helping people who are having challenges, start by creating a group on social media of your choice. Whatever you have flair for, go ahead and start doing. I challenge you to put your hands on the plough immediately after reading this and I assure you that once you start, with the grace of God, all other good things will follow. And if you need any help, feel free to contact us through the comment section and we will contribute what we can or direct you to other channels which will be of help to you.
FOR MORE ENCOURAGEMENT AND STEPS TO REACHING THIS YOUR NEW GOAL
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Wednesday, June 14, 2017
Friday, June 2, 2017
HOW TO GET THINGS DONE
In life, each and everyone of us would want to be productive. Whatever you do, it is imperative that you produce results constantly. Whether you work at home or outside home, whether you are self employed or you work for someone. Whether you are a boss or an employee, you need to be productive.
When we talk about getting things done, we are talking about meeting targets. We are talking about achieving goals. It means delivering quality services to our clients at the record time.
In order to get things done, some people make use of what is called "To Do List". Where they list all they need to accomplish for the day. To such people, getting things done entails successfully completing every item in their "To Do List".
Today, we are in a world that is awash with all kinds or sources of distractions and interruptions. It is without doubts that whatever you do and wherever you are, you are exposed to one source of distraction or the other. However, in spite of a all these distractions and interruptions, there are still steps that if you follow diligently you will be able to get things done. And not just getting things done, but getting good things done at the record time. Take a look at the following points. Let's go.
1. Go straight to the task.
Like I said earlier, there are litanies of tantalizing distractions littering our spaces. So, if you want to beat such distractions, what you need to do is to ignore them and go straight to the tasks before you. If you are one of those who use "To Do List", your focus should be fixated on the first item or the first task on your list.
2. Stay away from the social networks
This particular point feature in almost all other articles similar to this. However, many of us fail to live up to the advice. When it comes to visiting social networking sites during working hours, many of us are culprits. Like you quite know, it is easy to say, 'let me update my page'. And once you are there, you may see links which you may be tempted to click on. And as you already know, once you click on such links, it is most probably that you see other links that may interest you. And that's how you go wild forgetting that you have some tasks before or ahead of you. Remember that your intension initially was to just update within five minutes. But now the five minutes has turned to one hour. And if care is not taken, it might even take your two or more working hours.
The University of Maryland, in collaboration with Total DUI (a non-profit group), recently released a compilation of reports and statistics on social media addiction in the US. It revealed that 18 percent of users can't go beyond "a few hours" without checking Facebook and 61 percent of users check their newsfeed "at least once a day." Of iPhone users, 28 percent check their Twitter feed before getting up in the morning. It's estimated that the average American spends nearly one quarter of their work day browsing social media for non-work related activities.
In order to get things done, the best bet is, don't go there at all. Don't open your email box if your job is not there. Don't log in to your social network account.
In the report released by The University of Maryland, in collaboration with Total DUI (a non-profit group), between 60 and 80 percent of Americans admit they don't go online for anything necessary, but rather to kill time or be entertained. For bigger businesses, this means if one thousand of your employees spend just one hour per day "cyberloafing," it could cost you $35 million each year. To make matters worse, numerous studies have revealed that just checking certain social media sites can make a person feel less happy. Now you might have unhappy employees as well as less productive ones.
Every social networking site is a double edged sword. It is sweet and sour. It can make or Mar your productive life. For those who are into Internet marketing or online business, social networking sites are havens of opportunities. This is because they connect with their potential clients through email services and networking sites. However, that well said, it is of prime importance to note here that even those who use the social networking sites for business should be disciplined in their way of using it. The fact is that without being focused, it is easy to stray once on face book platform or any other social networking site. The way out is, like I said earlier, don't visit such site if that is not where your job is. And that will help you to eschew social media addiction.
So, if you must work online, you must be ready to ignore pop ups and other adverts that jostle for your attention on Web pages as you browse through the Internet. Not just to ignore pop ups but to guard or protect oneself from negative stories that can impact negatively on one.
One of the trusted ways of getting things done which we have seen in the life of the world's greatest achievers like Thomas Edison "is to keep trying". As long as what you are trying to do has been done by some one else or even if it has not been done by any one, the truth is that it can be done by you if you stick to it. This means that in order to get things done, you must not give up. You must keep working on your target. Ask questions.
3. Switch off the internet.
It is not possible to get things done if you are always on the Internet doing what you are not suppose to do. The Internet is not a place to go all the time. Most time you need to work offline especially if your work is not online. Like it was pointed out in point number two above, there are many sources of distractions and interruptions on the Internet.
4. Do not welcome casual visitors during your work hours.
In order to get things done, we must not entertain visitors during our work hours. This applies to working at home and those working outside home. As long as it is with in the range of your work hours, don't fix any appointment that has nothing to do with your job. Your working period should be visitor-free.
In several occasions, I have heard people complain of entertaining visitors during work hours as the reason they were unable to meet their targets or get things done.
Such excuses are not cogent. Your boss or your client or even your spouse will not give you thumbs up for that excuse. Even in rare case when you must welcome visitors due to the urgency or importance of the reason for such visit, you need to allocate specific time that will not interfere with your day's job.
5. Don't give up.
Sometimes we don't get things done because we give up too soon. For instance, if some people work on a goal once or twice and they don't succeed in it, they give up trying. And remember that as long as you give up trying, you can not get things done.
What I have found out is that some people don't get things done not because what they are trying to do is undoable but because they decided to throw in the towel may be as a result of impatient or lack or motivation.
What I believe is that the longer you work on a project, the better your experience. And the better your experience, the nearer you are to getting it done.
6.Believe in yourself
Many of us don't get things done because we look down on ourselves forgetting that God lives in us. And when you look down on yourself, you lose confidence in yourself. And when you lose confidence in yourself, it means you don't believe in yourself. So, Don't look down on yourself.
Like I have always said consistently in other articles, to believe in yourself means to believe that there are abilities in you to carry out successfully, one task or the other. That is what Albert Badura calls "Self Efficacy". Self efficacy according him, is the act of believing that one has the ability to do what one wants to do.
When it comes to believing in oneself, what I have discovered is that when one believes in oneself, it gives One the impetus to work harder on a project despite the number of times that one fails. In other words, if you believe that there is enough powers inside you to enable you succeed in what you are doing, you will be motivated to do whatever it takes to help you get the thing done.
When you believe in yourself, that is, when you believe that there is power inside you to enable you carry out a task successfully, you will not be tempted to hang the booth no matter how many times you fail or the difficulty or the challenges you are facing in the project. The fact is that when you believe in yourself, you will start seeing failure as set backs or obstacles that can easily be overcome. So, the best bet, like I always say is, you must believe in yourself and in the God that lives in you because when you do so, it will help you to get things done. And not just getting good things done, but getting things done at the record time.
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The vastness of "The Wealth In You"
Have you ever wondered why you have been able to achieve what you have been able to achieve in your life today?
Have you for once inquired into the reason why the person next to you have been able to produce the result that he or she is enjoying today?
Have you heard about the richest person in the world?
Have you heard that a person is the most beautiful girl in the world?
Have you ever wondered why a poverty-stricken, 12-year-old boy from a war ravaged country of Africa or middle east who found himself in the midst of fortunate kids from well to do families in Europe and America would outsmart his mates academically?
Have you ever also wondered why a child from an influential home could out-perform all his or her mates and become the best pupil academically?
The reason simply is because every one of such people cited above including you possess great wealth in them.
You don't need to wonder again, Dude; because they wouldn't have been able to achieve what they have achieved if they do not already have the potential to achieve it in them. In other words, you, me or any one else have been able to achieve whatever we have been able to achieve only because we have the wealth in us. We have the abilities in us. We have what it takes in us.
I said every one of us possess "wealth in us". Yes, I said "Wealth" .You heard me right. And you may be wondering how come human beings possess wealth in them. For a clarification and to quell your curiosity, let us try a definition of wealth.
Have you for once inquired into the reason why the person next to you have been able to produce the result that he or she is enjoying today?
Have you heard about the richest person in the world?
Have you heard that a person is the most beautiful girl in the world?
Have you ever wondered why a poverty-stricken, 12-year-old boy from a war ravaged country of Africa or middle east who found himself in the midst of fortunate kids from well to do families in Europe and America would outsmart his mates academically?
Have you ever also wondered why a child from an influential home could out-perform all his or her mates and become the best pupil academically?
The reason simply is because every one of such people cited above including you possess great wealth in them.
You don't need to wonder again, Dude; because they wouldn't have been able to achieve what they have achieved if they do not already have the potential to achieve it in them. In other words, you, me or any one else have been able to achieve whatever we have been able to achieve only because we have the wealth in us. We have the abilities in us. We have what it takes in us.
I said every one of us possess "wealth in us". Yes, I said "Wealth" .You heard me right. And you may be wondering how come human beings possess wealth in them. For a clarification and to quell your curiosity, let us try a definition of wealth.
What is wealth?
Whenever we hear the word "wealth" what readily come to our mind is the abundance of physical assets such as cars, money, house and other material possessions.
Now, according to an online dictionary, wealth simply means the abundance of valuable possessions.
Mark that phrase,"Valuable possessions"
That phrase, valuable possessions do not mean only material possessions but include other intagible possessions.
So, when I say that there is wealth in every one of us, what I mean is that there exist inside everyone of us abundance of valuable possession.
The word "valuable" means priceless. Something that is very important. And it is not just that we have all these in us, but we have them in abundance.
Before we go ahead, i would like us to take a look at two synonyms of wealth.
There are many synonyms of wealth, but these two are apt to the context we are discussing and will help to give more insight into how wealth exist in every human being.
The two synonyms are;
Well-being and
Resources
Well-being is a sound state of health. It is not a material wealth but it is a state of health that can be transformed into material wealth. No wonder they say that health Is wealth. This means that it is people who are in a state of well-being that are able to generate wealth. It means that people who are healthy possess wealth.
On the other hand, human resources is also not a material wealth but are qualities, virtues or attributes possessed by man which when utilised can generate or be transformed into physical or material wealth.
Now, real wealth is not the material wealth which we normally focus on.
Real wealth are those wealth in raw form such as well-being and human resources.
Many people struggle in life because they focus on the material wealth rather than on the real wealth which are in the formless state.
People who possess material wealth are those who have been able to make a good combination and the right manipulation of the real or formless wealth in its raw state and transformed it into the physical wealth.
And that is why I have always said, that, "The foundation of success is the wealth in you"
Now, real wealth is not the material wealth which we normally focus on.
Real wealth are those wealth in raw form such as well-being and human resources.
Many people struggle in life because they focus on the material wealth rather than on the real wealth which are in the formless state.
People who possess material wealth are those who have been able to make a good combination and the right manipulation of the real or formless wealth in its raw state and transformed it into the physical wealth.
And that is why I have always said, that, "The foundation of success is the wealth in you"
May be you are one of those who believe in fate like I do. But fate cannot produce wealth without substances.
And if fate is responsible, why is it that my village has not produced the richest man in the world? Or is it that people from my village are not fated to be the richest person in the world? But mind you, there is abundance of wealth in everyone of us though in a formless state but can be transformed into the tangible wealth at any time. And one day someone from my village will be the richest person in the world. That's by the way.
And if fate is responsible, why is it that my village has not produced the richest man in the world? Or is it that people from my village are not fated to be the richest person in the world? But mind you, there is abundance of wealth in everyone of us though in a formless state but can be transformed into the tangible wealth at any time. And one day someone from my village will be the richest person in the world. That's by the way.
Now, nature made us to be strong enough to do things that astound us. We are intrinsically made with unfathomable wealth and abilities. The wealth and abilities that we cannot exhaust within the period we are to live on earth.
I know about a man called Roger Banister, a British athletes who at that time was a medical student. In the year 1954, he shattered world record in athletics. He was able to complete a mile under four minutes. A feat that was considered impossible before he did it.
What about Edmund Hillary, the New Zealand mountineer who in 1953 was able to reach the summit of mount everest after several attempts by others failed. And after he broke the jinx, more people have been able to climb and reach the summit of the everest successfully.
Another fellow who exhibited the existence of wealth in him was Thomas Edison. The man who persisted in inventing the incandescent lamp despite failing 9,999 times before getting the lamp correctly. There are many others who have utilised the wealth in them.
The raw or formless wealth that the people mentioned above possess are; Discipline, courage, self confidence, wisdom, well being and etc. All the above mentioned wealth in their raw or formless form were transformed into physical or material wealth for the people mentioned above. If they were not healthy (well being), disciplined, courageous, wise and etc, they won't have been able to accomplish all that they accomplished.
I know about a man called Roger Banister, a British athletes who at that time was a medical student. In the year 1954, he shattered world record in athletics. He was able to complete a mile under four minutes. A feat that was considered impossible before he did it.
What about Edmund Hillary, the New Zealand mountineer who in 1953 was able to reach the summit of mount everest after several attempts by others failed. And after he broke the jinx, more people have been able to climb and reach the summit of the everest successfully.
Another fellow who exhibited the existence of wealth in him was Thomas Edison. The man who persisted in inventing the incandescent lamp despite failing 9,999 times before getting the lamp correctly. There are many others who have utilised the wealth in them.
The raw or formless wealth that the people mentioned above possess are; Discipline, courage, self confidence, wisdom, well being and etc. All the above mentioned wealth in their raw or formless form were transformed into physical or material wealth for the people mentioned above. If they were not healthy (well being), disciplined, courageous, wise and etc, they won't have been able to accomplish all that they accomplished.
All the above examples are what man's physical abilities can accomplish through the use of the wealth in them if given extra exertion.
Truly, it was an extra exertion of the ability in them that made them to produced the extra effect. But there wouldn't have been an extra effect if the wealth do not exist already. So, extra effect was produced because there exist in the system an unexplored or an unsed wealth in a formless state.
What about man's mental or psychological abilities. I have read that man's mental abilities are so vast that an average person uses only 3% of his mental abilities within his life time.
Albert Einstein coined an equation(e=mc2) that defied every effort by the most intelligent physicists to solve. But that was not a feat beyond human capacity to unravel. For after ten good calender years of thinking and brainstorming Einstein, the genius himself was able to solve the equation. An equation that revolutionised the way scientists and technologists think.
The question is, "where did the ability to solve the equation come from? Of course, it didn't come from any where outside the human brain which seems to be the sit of the real wealth in us. Which connotes that there exist in the brain of each and everyone of us unexploited powers or abilities which are ready to do their work and be transformed to physical wealth if evoked.
What about the human ability to endure or bear hardship or pain or discomfort of all types?
What about the human ability to put up with or endure shame and disgrace of or all types and intensity?
What about the ability to insist on getting what you want in spite of the difficulties or the challenges that come with it. Inspite of the sacrifices that it demands. And inspite of the length of time that it requires?
The truth and nothing but the whole truth is that these abilities exist in us. And it's not that they just exist, they are action-ready waiting for us to call them up and be transformed into material wealth.
Once again, these abilities are inside of us even in excess but we never called them to action. And that's why they never worked for a lot of us.
Now, if all these raw wealth exist in everyone of us. Why is it that some people fail? People fail because of the way they are programmed.
Programming.
The majority of our problems lies with how we are programmed.
Some time ago, I took an introductory course in computer programming. In that course, we learnt how to configure or shape the computer. Not the physical structures or hard wares, by the soft wares aspect of the computer. The course is all about programming the computer. That is; giving the computer modus operandi, limits or scope of what it can or should do and what it cannot or should not do.
Originally, thecomputer has the potential to work in other ways but it won't make use of such potential powers because of the way it has been programmed. And so , it can only work in sync to the way it has been pre-programmed. It can only work according to the way it is programmed.
We human beings operate in a similar form. We perform to the extent at which we are programmed to perform.
The programming of every human starts from the day he or she was born. We are programmed by what we heard, what we saw, how we were treated and how others were treated.
All that experiences became our reality or our model of what life is all about. They become our model of how to act. Such experiences peogrammed us and dictates how we react to events. Our programming dictates how we respond to issues ranging from criticism to commendation. From success to failure. It controls how we go about pursuing our dreams.
It controls the amount of effort we put in while trying to reach our dreams and maximize the wealth in us. It controls how we percieve others. It controls how we relate to others. It controls how we view other peoples' opinions about us. It controls our resistance to discomforting situation. It controls what we do in order to overcome challenging situation.
Everything we do is controlled by how we are progeammed to do things.
Like the computer, we possess other abilities or potentials to do more than we are doing currently, but we are limited by our programming codes.
Like we saw in the examples of people who were able to achieve beyond the so called "normal" by exerting extra effort, it is also possible for you to achieve extra by exerting extra effort because ability and the abilty to exert extra effort and achieve extra exist in you. The nitty-gritty here is that there are extra abilities in you. There is an unexplored area or a fallow ground in you. You are only limited by your programming. You can do more if you change your programming codes or syntax to give room for producing the extra wealth which exist in you.
Truly, it was an extra exertion of the ability in them that made them to produced the extra effect. But there wouldn't have been an extra effect if the wealth do not exist already. So, extra effect was produced because there exist in the system an unexplored or an unsed wealth in a formless state.
What about man's mental or psychological abilities. I have read that man's mental abilities are so vast that an average person uses only 3% of his mental abilities within his life time.
Albert Einstein coined an equation(e=mc2) that defied every effort by the most intelligent physicists to solve. But that was not a feat beyond human capacity to unravel. For after ten good calender years of thinking and brainstorming Einstein, the genius himself was able to solve the equation. An equation that revolutionised the way scientists and technologists think.
The question is, "where did the ability to solve the equation come from? Of course, it didn't come from any where outside the human brain which seems to be the sit of the real wealth in us. Which connotes that there exist in the brain of each and everyone of us unexploited powers or abilities which are ready to do their work and be transformed to physical wealth if evoked.
What about the human ability to endure or bear hardship or pain or discomfort of all types?
What about the human ability to put up with or endure shame and disgrace of or all types and intensity?
What about the ability to insist on getting what you want in spite of the difficulties or the challenges that come with it. Inspite of the sacrifices that it demands. And inspite of the length of time that it requires?
The truth and nothing but the whole truth is that these abilities exist in us. And it's not that they just exist, they are action-ready waiting for us to call them up and be transformed into material wealth.
Once again, these abilities are inside of us even in excess but we never called them to action. And that's why they never worked for a lot of us.
Now, if all these raw wealth exist in everyone of us. Why is it that some people fail? People fail because of the way they are programmed.
Programming.
The majority of our problems lies with how we are programmed.
Some time ago, I took an introductory course in computer programming. In that course, we learnt how to configure or shape the computer. Not the physical structures or hard wares, by the soft wares aspect of the computer. The course is all about programming the computer. That is; giving the computer modus operandi, limits or scope of what it can or should do and what it cannot or should not do.
Originally, thecomputer has the potential to work in other ways but it won't make use of such potential powers because of the way it has been programmed. And so , it can only work in sync to the way it has been pre-programmed. It can only work according to the way it is programmed.
We human beings operate in a similar form. We perform to the extent at which we are programmed to perform.
The programming of every human starts from the day he or she was born. We are programmed by what we heard, what we saw, how we were treated and how others were treated.
All that experiences became our reality or our model of what life is all about. They become our model of how to act. Such experiences peogrammed us and dictates how we react to events. Our programming dictates how we respond to issues ranging from criticism to commendation. From success to failure. It controls how we go about pursuing our dreams.
It controls the amount of effort we put in while trying to reach our dreams and maximize the wealth in us. It controls how we percieve others. It controls how we relate to others. It controls how we view other peoples' opinions about us. It controls our resistance to discomforting situation. It controls what we do in order to overcome challenging situation.
Everything we do is controlled by how we are progeammed to do things.
Like the computer, we possess other abilities or potentials to do more than we are doing currently, but we are limited by our programming codes.
Like we saw in the examples of people who were able to achieve beyond the so called "normal" by exerting extra effort, it is also possible for you to achieve extra by exerting extra effort because ability and the abilty to exert extra effort and achieve extra exist in you. The nitty-gritty here is that there are extra abilities in you. There is an unexplored area or a fallow ground in you. You are only limited by your programming. You can do more if you change your programming codes or syntax to give room for producing the extra wealth which exist in you.
Thursday, June 1, 2017
Saturday, May 20, 2017
Don't Look Down On Yourself.
Have you ever felt, Oh! Why am I worthless? Have you ever felt, oh! I am a "nobody". You feel, "Why are things not working out the way they should for me"? You have tried several things and none of them seem to be going your way. And when you look around you, you see people rolling out drums for having achieved what you wish to achieve. And you feel diminished the more. You feel, what a he'll is this? And you will say to yourself, life sucks. If you have felt that way before, let it be known to you that you are not alone. Lots of people out there have also found themselves struggle with a similar heart wrenching thoughts.
Now, the truth is that what makes you feel that "nobodyness" in you is the "somebodyness" which exist and is still alive in you. If there is no sense of "somebodyness" in you, you will not feel like a nobody if things don't work out your way.
Some people don't get things done and they are not bothered. There are some people that are not producing result, yet they they don't give a damn.
"Naturally, the case is worse for those who do not know and they don't know that they don't know". It is the same for those who don't know and they don't bother that they don't know.
Now, there are two ways to this;there are those who are not getting things done and are not bothered. This set of people are not bothered because they feel that they are already lost in life. To this set of people, nothing matters. They are hopeless and they don't intend to do any thing about it. That is on one hand.
Now, there are two ways to this;there are those who are not getting things done and are not bothered. This set of people are not bothered because they feel that they are already lost in life. To this set of people, nothing matters. They are hopeless and they don't intend to do any thing about it. That is on one hand.
Then on the other hand, there is yet this other set of people who don't bother when things don't go their way. For this set of people, they don't bother, and this is not because they are hopeless or that they do not care. This set of people don't bother or look down on themselves because they understand the vicissitudes of life. This group of informed souls is aware that failure is not final but just a feedback. You find out that though this set of people failed to get things done as expected, they will not give up or resort to looking down on themselves. The will not begrudge themselves because they know that he who fail today will succeed tomorrow.
May be in your case, you are not producing the result you expect and you are not okay with it. This situation doesn't go down well with you because you want or you expect that you can do better or even the best. So, what this implies is that you are not worthless. And the reason why you are not worthless is because you don't like the outcome of your efforts.
You don't like the fact that you are not producing the kind of result that you want and you wish that it is different. Therefore, it doesn't warrant you looking down on yourself. What the situation warrant is dusting yourself and start looking out for opportunity to Wright the wrong. Re-strategize. Once you are convinced that the object of your target is worth it, you don't change your focus, instead you change the methodology.
You don't like the fact that you are not producing the kind of result that you want and you wish that it is different. Therefore, it doesn't warrant you looking down on yourself. What the situation warrant is dusting yourself and start looking out for opportunity to Wright the wrong. Re-strategize. Once you are convinced that the object of your target is worth it, you don't change your focus, instead you change the methodology.
The fact is that when you look down on yourself, you will see yourself as an empty vessel. You will begin to under value yourself. And when you feel that you have little or no value, you will automatically lose motivation and as a result become incapacitated to move on. And that is tilting towards more experiences that will strengthen your negative perception of yourself.
Now, what are those experiences that have the potential to make you look down on yourself?
Now, what are those experiences that have the potential to make you look down on yourself?
Sometimes you look down on yourself because of how others treat or have treated you.
When some people around you such as your spouse, your colleagues, your acquaintances and sometimes strangers treat you with disdain. Talk to you disrespectfully, you may be forced to look down on yourself. You may be forced to start thinking that something is wrong with you as a person which in most cases is not true. Although sometimes, your own disposition or demeanor may be responsible for how others treat you, however, in the majority of cases, it may not be a reaction to your action but a transfer of aggression or an outright show of ill manners by a person towards you.
In most cases you are not responsible for the ill treatment meted out to you. Sometimes, it is someone who has inferiority complex or a person who has emptiness in him or her that is trying to transfer it into you. So, you don't have to look down on yourself. Remember, your self worth is indestructible. Below is a quote I saw somewhere. I guess you may like it. It says,
"You are going to meet a lot of mean and disrespectful people in your life. Don't let them hurt you. Don't let their bitter and evil words break the surface of your skin. Keep your dignity, remain true to yourself, be the better person. They need help. It's not up to you to fix them or put up with them. Just smile and walk away".
For me, I view such negative actions toward me as a normal break which can come from anyone and targeted to anyone and it can only affect me if I allow it. Sometimes I tell people not to own certain derogatory remarks made at them. Don't take it as an attack premeditatively designed for you. You never can tell. May be it is straying comment looking for a person who is receptive to it. And even in some cases when the comment is meant or designed for you, it a wise decision to shake it off you and move on instead of looking down on yourself.
Another factor that can make you to look down on yourself is when you expect much from people and they fell short of your expectation of them.
All of us are human beings and it is a fact that no human is an island. No individual lives in a complete isolation. Which means that in one way or the other we interact with one another. And as a result of this inevitable coexistence among everyone of us, either by omission or commission, willingly or unwillingly, we tend to engage in acts that may lead us to us expect certain things either tangible or intangible from people who are in our contact.
Again, we know that everyone of us is a bundle of imperfection. And this makes us susceptible to disappointing others(falling short of other peoples' expection). And others falling short of our own expectations too.
Now, in order to shield yourself from disappointment from people which may lead you to looking down on yourself, you must bear it mind just like we just read that everyone of us is an imperfect being and are prone to disappointing others. The button line is, don't expect much from people in spite of whom the person may be to you. However, even when you hinge your expectation on someone which you must, it will be a wise decision to be prepared for the shock that may ensue as a result of "unmet expectation" from people. So, having pre girded yourself with such a shock absorbing mindset, it will be easy for you to experience disappointment or "unmet" expectations without causing you to look down on yourself.
Another factor, that can make one look down on oneself is the result of medical examinations. Some time ago, I was opportuned to meet someone whose self perception deteriorated within a twinkle of an eye. This was a guy who prior to the the time he received the result of a medical investigation, oozed out enthusiasm. He was a vibrant personage. A very sociable fellow. However, all these attribute got lost by the time he got the result of a medical examination. His sudden withdrawal from his social circle and the subsequent slump into a depressive mood made people to ask what the issue was with him. It was later discovered that he was diagnosed of a rare medical condition.
As a result, this one time man of courage, began to look down on himself. This was a person who has always known how to get things done. But as days went by, his self confidence continued to ebb.
Now, this could have happened to anyone. And for me, it would be unfair to conclude that his sudden change in perception of himself was uncalled for.
What I would say is that in such situations, we should understand that being diagnosed of a terminal illness is not the termination of one's life.
I remember a story told by Steve Jobs of Apple on his health problems. In year 2005, in a speech he presented during a graduation ceremony in Stanford university, he told a story about him being diagnosed of a rare type of prostate cancer which was confirmed by the doctor as inoperable. And due to the rarity of the said cancer, he was adviced by his doctor to put his house in order in preparation for a journey of no return. He said that the diagnoses created panic in his family. He felt bad, however, he went for another diagnoses which it's result stated that the cancer can be operated and remove surgically. So, he went for the operation, and it was successful. And after the operation, he lived many more years.
In the said speech, he said something that should encourage anyone who may be or may have found him or herself in such a situation. He said that "death should not be feared because it is a debt which everyone must pay". Rather we should be concerned about what we are here to do on earth. Even at the face of the diagnose, he continued to work as the CEO of Apple. He focused more on living a lasting and impressive legacy behind than focusing on the fear of death.
So, don't allow unfavourable results of medical examination make you to look down on yourself.
My own humble opinion is that instead of slumping into despondency, you should find more ways of engaging yourself in things that can benefit humanity starting from the people around you. Also, try and pursue your dreams if you have any with the last drop of your blood. Remember, the truth is that you are more powerful than you think.so don't look down on yourself.
When some people around you such as your spouse, your colleagues, your acquaintances and sometimes strangers treat you with disdain. Talk to you disrespectfully, you may be forced to look down on yourself. You may be forced to start thinking that something is wrong with you as a person which in most cases is not true. Although sometimes, your own disposition or demeanor may be responsible for how others treat you, however, in the majority of cases, it may not be a reaction to your action but a transfer of aggression or an outright show of ill manners by a person towards you.
In most cases you are not responsible for the ill treatment meted out to you. Sometimes, it is someone who has inferiority complex or a person who has emptiness in him or her that is trying to transfer it into you. So, you don't have to look down on yourself. Remember, your self worth is indestructible. Below is a quote I saw somewhere. I guess you may like it. It says,
"You are going to meet a lot of mean and disrespectful people in your life. Don't let them hurt you. Don't let their bitter and evil words break the surface of your skin. Keep your dignity, remain true to yourself, be the better person. They need help. It's not up to you to fix them or put up with them. Just smile and walk away".
Another factor that can make you to look down on yourself is when you expect much from people and they fell short of your expectation of them.
All of us are human beings and it is a fact that no human is an island. No individual lives in a complete isolation. Which means that in one way or the other we interact with one another. And as a result of this inevitable coexistence among everyone of us, either by omission or commission, willingly or unwillingly, we tend to engage in acts that may lead us to us expect certain things either tangible or intangible from people who are in our contact.
Again, we know that everyone of us is a bundle of imperfection. And this makes us susceptible to disappointing others(falling short of other peoples' expection). And others falling short of our own expectations too.
Now, in order to shield yourself from disappointment from people which may lead you to looking down on yourself, you must bear it mind just like we just read that everyone of us is an imperfect being and are prone to disappointing others. The button line is, don't expect much from people in spite of whom the person may be to you. However, even when you hinge your expectation on someone which you must, it will be a wise decision to be prepared for the shock that may ensue as a result of "unmet expectation" from people. So, having pre girded yourself with such a shock absorbing mindset, it will be easy for you to experience disappointment or "unmet" expectations without causing you to look down on yourself.
Another factor, that can make one look down on oneself is the result of medical examinations. Some time ago, I was opportuned to meet someone whose self perception deteriorated within a twinkle of an eye. This was a guy who prior to the the time he received the result of a medical investigation, oozed out enthusiasm. He was a vibrant personage. A very sociable fellow. However, all these attribute got lost by the time he got the result of a medical examination. His sudden withdrawal from his social circle and the subsequent slump into a depressive mood made people to ask what the issue was with him. It was later discovered that he was diagnosed of a rare medical condition.
As a result, this one time man of courage, began to look down on himself. This was a person who has always known how to get things done. But as days went by, his self confidence continued to ebb.
Now, this could have happened to anyone. And for me, it would be unfair to conclude that his sudden change in perception of himself was uncalled for.
What I would say is that in such situations, we should understand that being diagnosed of a terminal illness is not the termination of one's life.
I remember a story told by Steve Jobs of Apple on his health problems. In year 2005, in a speech he presented during a graduation ceremony in Stanford university, he told a story about him being diagnosed of a rare type of prostate cancer which was confirmed by the doctor as inoperable. And due to the rarity of the said cancer, he was adviced by his doctor to put his house in order in preparation for a journey of no return. He said that the diagnoses created panic in his family. He felt bad, however, he went for another diagnoses which it's result stated that the cancer can be operated and remove surgically. So, he went for the operation, and it was successful. And after the operation, he lived many more years.
In the said speech, he said something that should encourage anyone who may be or may have found him or herself in such a situation. He said that "death should not be feared because it is a debt which everyone must pay". Rather we should be concerned about what we are here to do on earth. Even at the face of the diagnose, he continued to work as the CEO of Apple. He focused more on living a lasting and impressive legacy behind than focusing on the fear of death.
So, don't allow unfavourable results of medical examination make you to look down on yourself.
My own humble opinion is that instead of slumping into despondency, you should find more ways of engaging yourself in things that can benefit humanity starting from the people around you. Also, try and pursue your dreams if you have any with the last drop of your blood. Remember, the truth is that you are more powerful than you think.so don't look down on yourself.
How To Actualize A Dream
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There are litanies of challenges that almost every one of face in life. And one of the biggest of all these challenges is that of actualizing our dreams. Most of the time we encounter challenges which sometimes make it difficult for us to actualize our dreams. And that is why each and everyone us of become happy each time we create a dream and realize it. I am pretty sure that many of us already have dreams that we want to actualize. And yet there are some here who in the future will create dreams which they will like to bring to fruition. Also, many of us have at one time or the other tried to make a dream a reality but failed. So, for this reason, we are going to talk about "How To Actualize Your Dreams". We are going to look at a tested and trusted six practical steps to actualize your dreams.
In order to actualize your dreams in life, you need to know who you are. Knowing who you are is key to actualize your dreams in life. This is because when you know who you are , it will enable you to create a dream that resonates with you.
knowing who you are is a great asset when it comes to creating and actualizing a dream. When you know who you are it will enable you to know your core competence. The knowledge of yourself will enable you to be abreast with your strength. You will agree with me that it is easier to reach a dream that has to do with what you can do. A dream woven round your area of strength.
To know yourself also means to know your weaknesses. I would also contend that knowing your weakness is a great asset. I consider it a great asset in the sense that when you know who you are then instead of wasting your time struggling to do what you cannot do, it is better to channel it towards your area of competence. For more importance of knowing who you are. Read "Who are you?
knowing who you are is a great asset when it comes to creating and actualizing a dream. When you know who you are it will enable you to know your core competence. The knowledge of yourself will enable you to be abreast with your strength. You will agree with me that it is easier to reach a dream that has to do with what you can do. A dream woven round your area of strength.
To know yourself also means to know your weaknesses. I would also contend that knowing your weakness is a great asset. I consider it a great asset in the sense that when you know who you are then instead of wasting your time struggling to do what you cannot do, it is better to channel it towards your area of competence. For more importance of knowing who you are. Read "Who are you?
The very important first step to actualizing your dreams is to have a dream, an aim or a purpose. When you create a dream, a signal is usually sent to your subconscious mind to give it the information about what you want. And subsequently your subconscious mind will focus on that dream. The dream will give you a sense of direction. It will serve as a sign post to where you are going. The reason why some people keep doing something new and keep succeeding is because they create dreams and work hard and smart to realize them. And on the other hand, the reason, why some are not making progress is because they do not have any dream that they are to work on. And due to lack of dreams, they remain stagnant.
Every multinational companies or organisation we see today started as a dream. Large corporations like Microsoft, Apple, Dangote group, Mcdonalds, Facebook, Glo Nigeria, Western Union and many others started as a dream in the mind of the founders.
The above mentioned companies were like the dream you have in your mind right away as you are reading this article. So, don't discard that dream in your mind. It is a microcosm of what is capable of becoming a conglomerate in the future.
Every multinational companies or organisation we see today started as a dream. Large corporations like Microsoft, Apple, Dangote group, Mcdonalds, Facebook, Glo Nigeria, Western Union and many others started as a dream in the mind of the founders.
The above mentioned companies were like the dream you have in your mind right away as you are reading this article. So, don't discard that dream in your mind. It is a microcosm of what is capable of becoming a conglomerate in the future.
I always say that "The best development in life is the development of yourself". To develop yourself, means to engage in self development activities. It means learning new skills. Developing yourself is another important action that you will take to enable you accomplish your dreams in life. We all know that no one was born with the whole information or knowledge he needs to be all that he or she wants to be in life. So, in order to realize your dreams or goals in life, there is need to garner information that will help you accomplish them.
I learnt about a 35 years old man who suddenly developed interest in dancing and choreographing. He never danced professionally before. But his passion for acrobatic dance grew beyond measure. And one day he woke up and decided to look for a dancing school. He found one and started learning how to take dancing steps from the scratch. He started to practice dancing even during his spare time. And after a period of six months he graduated from the dancing school and he started dancing during shows.
When he told some of his colleagues about going to a dancing school, some of them thought it was insane to think of going to dancing school at the age of 35. But here he is today participating in shows as a dancer.
What he did was that he developed himself by learning dancing skills which was what he needed to become a dancer.
This applies to everyone of us. To actualize any dream, we need certakn skills. Once you create a dream, you determine the type of skills that the dream requires and you go ahead to acquire them.
I learnt about a 35 years old man who suddenly developed interest in dancing and choreographing. He never danced professionally before. But his passion for acrobatic dance grew beyond measure. And one day he woke up and decided to look for a dancing school. He found one and started learning how to take dancing steps from the scratch. He started to practice dancing even during his spare time. And after a period of six months he graduated from the dancing school and he started dancing during shows.
When he told some of his colleagues about going to a dancing school, some of them thought it was insane to think of going to dancing school at the age of 35. But here he is today participating in shows as a dancer.
What he did was that he developed himself by learning dancing skills which was what he needed to become a dancer.
This applies to everyone of us. To actualize any dream, we need certakn skills. Once you create a dream, you determine the type of skills that the dream requires and you go ahead to acquire them.
It was Zig zigla, an American life coach who said that, "You don't have to be great to start but you have to start to be great". There is no perfect time to do what you want to do. The secret is, just go into the game once you have enough information to get you started. The truth is that we learn by doing. That is; we learn faster by doing that which we want to learn.
In order to accomplish your dreams at the record time, it is imperative to know that it is practically impossible to have all that one requires before one goes ahead to work on one's dreams. That is to say, you don't need to have everything needed before you set out on the journey to actualuzing your dreams. The bottom line is , start with what you have where you are. The fact is that once you start, the rest of the requirements will take care of themselves.
Don't be afraid of starting small. Just like many other projects that started small but are at their peak today, you too can start small today and become big tomorrow.
Don't be afraid of starting small. Just like many other projects that started small but are at their peak today, you too can start small today and become big tomorrow.
Whatever you want to do today, there are people who are already experts and role models in it. That is; there are people who have done so well in that area and beginners look up to them. What you need to do is to study the life these people or meet them in person and ask them questions and they will always willingly provide answers to your questions. So, in order to actualize you dreams, you need to get a role model. The role model will help you avert mistakes that you would have encountered if you don't have one. The role model will help navigate you through some challenges that are inherent in the kind of dream you are pursuing.
Depending on your area of specialisation, below are few people that we considered to role models.
1. Less brown
2. Mark Zuckerberg
3. Larry Ellison or Oracle corporation
4. Genevive Nnaji An actres
Form partnership.
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In order to accomplish your dreams, you need to liase with others who are in the same field with you. When you enter into an agreement with a person who does what you do, it will lead to information sharing between or among the partners. When you are in partnership with someone, you can take advantage of the person's networks. And your partner(s) will also take advantage of your networks. And that will help you in actualizing your dream.
We have witnessed even big companies merging together to form a formidable structure in the form of a company. A partnership that will take a larger share of the market.
As a beginner, it is important to combine with someone else who you think can be of use to you. Depending on the terms of the agreement, some time a partnership deal has an expiration dates after which the partners go their separate ways. But before the the partners must have taken the advantage inherent in it.
DREAM WORKSHEET
Fill out the dream worksheet and follow them up practically.
My dreams are:
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(C).................................................................
What I need to do to actualize them
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(Good luck in your journey to accomplishing your dreams)
Also, read the following articles.
1. Don't Look Down On Yourself
2. The vastness of "The Wealth In You"
3. How to get things done.
4. Don't take "No" for an answer when it comes to the issue of your success
5. How the foundation of success is the wealth in you.
6. Believe in yourself
7. How to be successful in life
8. The wealth in you quotes for failure-proof mentality
9. How to change any situation
10. Asking the golden question
11. The wealth in you quotes
Watch this Video by Less Brown. The legendary motivational speaker
Depending on your area of specialisation, below are few people that we considered to role models.
1. Less brown
2. Mark Zuckerberg
3. Larry Ellison or Oracle corporation
4. Genevive Nnaji An actres
Form partnership.
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In order to accomplish your dreams, you need to liase with others who are in the same field with you. When you enter into an agreement with a person who does what you do, it will lead to information sharing between or among the partners. When you are in partnership with someone, you can take advantage of the person's networks. And your partner(s) will also take advantage of your networks. And that will help you in actualizing your dream.
We have witnessed even big companies merging together to form a formidable structure in the form of a company. A partnership that will take a larger share of the market.
As a beginner, it is important to combine with someone else who you think can be of use to you. Depending on the terms of the agreement, some time a partnership deal has an expiration dates after which the partners go their separate ways. But before the the partners must have taken the advantage inherent in it.
DREAM WORKSHEET
My dreams are:
(A).................................................................
(B).................................................................
(C).................................................................
What I need to do to actualize them
(A).................................................................
(B).................................................................
(C).................................................................
(D).................................................................
(E).................................................................
(Good luck in your journey to accomplishing your dreams)
Also, read the following articles.
1. Don't Look Down On Yourself
2. The vastness of "The Wealth In You"
3. How to get things done.
4. Don't take "No" for an answer when it comes to the issue of your success
5. How the foundation of success is the wealth in you.
6. Believe in yourself
7. How to be successful in life
8. The wealth in you quotes for failure-proof mentality
9. How to change any situation
10. Asking the golden question
11. The wealth in you quotes
Watch this Video by Less Brown. The legendary motivational speaker
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Who are you?
A very important question that you must ask yourself.
A correct answer will help you to discover yourself.
WHY DO YOU NEED TO KNOW YOURSELF?
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